How do some men deal with having 2 or more girlfriends?

[Askaladd]

A girlfriend is a lot to handle. Mood swings, life problems, attention requirements. How does one manage 2 women or more at once? And what are the benefits of this kind of arrangement?

 

[sevbucmash]

Each girlfriend has her own puppy boy that handles her mood swings, life problems, and attention requirements. You just do your man duty sexually.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

By not not being so attached to them that you are that worried about all these things.

You aren't there to solve her problems, she is a big girl, she can do that herself. Probably one of the biggest mistakes men make.

You limit your availability and stop trying to spend every waking minute together...another major issue many guys have problems doing.

Essentially you do less for each one and then you have time to do more.

 

[Clockwerk50]

To keep it as simple as possible, there are two stages: the seduction phase and the relationship-management phase.

The seduction phase refers to the process that happens before sex. It includes courtship and attraction-building, which eventually culminates in becoming physically intimate.

The relationship phase focuses on how the relationship is managed, its duration and the type of bond the woman and you will have in the future. In the manosphere, after you have sex with a woman, she is often referred to as a “plate.” Managing one or multiple partners is described as a process called spinning plates; however, in the real world is casual dating or parallel dating.

The main idea is that you must continuously invest effort to keep those connections active; if you put in too much effort, they may drift away, and if you put in none, they may fall apart. I’ve included a link below, but you can explore the concept further on your own.

Plate Theory

Spin more plates. A lot of people get confused when I use this analogy and I thought it prudent to write a post on just what I mean in this regard. A Man needs to have a lot of simultaneous prospec…

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The perceived benefits of having multiple partners include variety without commitment, the ability to vet multiple women at once to determine who might be best for a relationship (if you choose to pursue one), and receiving attention or effort from them. However, there are also downsides, such as increased risk of STDs, emotional complications, drama, and the possibility of getting hurt.

 

[CornbreadFed]

It's not for the weak

 

[Doctor Europeo]

@Askaladd why are you asking this question in the 1st place? Based on you other thread, it seems to me like you have a lot on your plate right now. Are you asking just out of curiosity?

 

[Askaladd]

@Askaladd why are you asking this question in the 1st place? Based on you other thread, it seems to me like you have a lot on your plate right now. Are you asking just out of curiosity?

Partly out of curiosity. Still the idea of 2 sounds exciting.

What do you think?

 

[HaleyBaron]

They're not my girlfriends. That's for the boyfriend.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Partly out of curiosity. Still the idea of 2 sounds exciting.
What do you think?

I think this is your inner DJ who´s thinking about exiting a toxic realtionship and start spinning plates. While you are spinning plates and improving youself, maybe one day you might meet a great girl who is worth dropping your rotation.

 

[Askaladd]

They're not my girlfriends. That's for the boyfriend.

And you just fvck the girls?

 

[Askaladd]

I think this is your inner DJ who´s thinking about exiting a toxic realtionship and start spinning plates. While you are spinning plates and improving youself, maybe one day you might meet a great girl who is worth dropping your rotation.

Women will share a great man, why not keep several? Like some tribe chief? Would give the women something to compete for too, your attention. A monogamous relationship could get boring for a woman.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Women will share a great man

Yes, there are a lot of hot women willing to share a certain man. But while they may be physically hot, what does this say about their character and overall quality?

Why dont we ask @BeExcellent or @Sega Genesis their three cents on the matter? Im sure they have some valuable perspective for you.

 

[Prepostereax]

They are not "girlfriends"
The relationship dynamic is different.

They are called "plates" here, though they'd call themselves something else ("partner" "situationship" "seeing someone")
They may refer to their partner/s as "boyfriends" but they'd be deluding themselves.

Yes, there are a lot of hot women willing to share a certain man. But while they may be physically hot, what does this say about their character and overall quality?

Yes.
They're just for fun.
Almost no woman willing to be a plate will turn out to be girlfriend/ wife material