"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do should I organize my plates

Mjsl30

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Ok so I was in an LTR for some years and in the spring I got red pilled and dumped my girlfriend because I realized she was a crazy *****.
So this summer I started to spin a lot of plates and now that its winter and I live in a cold state. It's harder to see all of them and I tend to focus more on my work at this time. So I narrowed it down to 3. And I like all 3 and they have different qualities. And I want to know how do I prioritize them and go about who I should see first or at any given time ? Because they all want most of my attention. And how do you guys go about organizing your rotation ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you have 3 then it's more sustainable as compared to 5 or even more as it drains a man emotionally, financially, and more importantly take away his time that's best used on other profitable ventures.

Ur problem perhaps stems from taking on 3 plates at once or at least very close to one another. It will settle down once you find ur rhythm.

When I'm running 3 plates, I'd date/bed each one at least once a week. Leaving Sundays as alone time. So for me it's Monday, Wednesday and Friday for spinning plates, with each plate slotted into those days.
 

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3 Is a good number. Keep spinning. If one plate drops no problem, you replace that plate when you have time.
 

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I recently dropped down to two steady plates. It also depends on how needy they are. If all of your plates are needy it gets harder to manage.
This is my setup,
Plate A on Friday nights
Plate B on Sat nights
A isn’t needy at all
B is needy asf
I set up new dates one day during the week in case one on my steady plates drops.
 
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