How do men form amazing social circles after college?

[Ambitious Player]

I know that in college, fraternities offer a brotherhood for like-minded men who have some similar hobbies which include looking their best, going out often, and chasing hot girls. Unfortunately a lot of men after college here in the USA tend to settle down and start a family.

How do men after college form social circles with other like-minded men to the point that there is a fraternity or a social network of cool guys who have similar hobbies?

Would love some ideas.

 

[_sideways_]

Simple....meet regular people in ur office building...gym..coffee place or restaurant. And u say hello once in a while...then u build like a trust...then u see if their married...people usually talk about their lives and whammo... U keep in contact with the dudes who like to work out and party...or just keep in contact with all of them.

Its hard because not everyone is open ...but such is life.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

To be srs, friends from high school and college most of the time

 

[LorenzoVonM]

It's pretty easy:

1) Find interests and hobbies that you like.
2) Do them
3) While you're out and about, talk to people. Tell them about your interests. If they seem cool, invite them along. At first you might have no one join you. Keep at it. Then 1 will join, then 2, then they invite their friends.

You can form groups on meetup.com

Another way:

Go to lots of charity events. People are there to socialize and they are often the most upwardly mobile in your area. They are also connectors and will know many people. Befriend them, go to the events they invite you to consistently, be social and before you know it you will have a ton of friends.

Make sh*t happen, don't be the guy that lets stuff happen to him

 

[starfishandcoffee]

Freemasonry.