"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do I use this to my advantage?

thegator39

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Finally got a response on okcupid from a decent looking woman...is under the impression that I have a band and wants to audition for it (she's a metalhead with tattoos, suicide girl type girl.) I have no problem setting up an audition....have the pieces in place, know musicians, etc., but I don't think she's the type of singer we're looking for...we're more classic rock, not scream stuff.

How do I balance dangling the band over her head like a carrot so I can get the p****? I don't think I'd be her type otherwise...I'm the clean cut, all american guy type...she dates metalheads with long hair usually.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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PapiChulo

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I think it's the wrong type of woman you are after. I tried one like that, and it was pretty obvious that nothing good would come out of it.
 

thegator39

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Even for sex/casual dating/friendship? It turns out she can actually sing pretty well and likes some of the music we like.
 
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