How do I use this to my advantage?

[thegator39]

Finally got a response on okcupid from a decent looking woman...is under the impression that I have a band and wants to audition for it (she's a metalhead with tattoos, suicide girl type girl.) I have no problem setting up an audition....have the pieces in place, know musicians, etc., but I don't think she's the type of singer we're looking for...we're more classic rock, not scream stuff.

How do I balance dangling the band over her head like a carrot so I can get the p****? I don't think I'd be her type otherwise...I'm the clean cut, all american guy type...she dates metalheads with long hair usually.

 

[PapiChulo]

I think it's the wrong type of woman you are after. I tried one like that, and it was pretty obvious that nothing good would come out of it.

 

[thegator39]

Even for sex/casual dating/friendship? It turns out she can actually sing pretty well and likes some of the music we like.