"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How do I use this to my advantage?

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thegator39

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Finally got a response on okcupid from a decent looking woman...is under the impression that I have a band and wants to audition for it (she's a metalhead with tattoos, suicide girl type girl.) I have no problem setting up an audition....have the pieces in place, know musicians, etc., but I don't think she's the type of singer we're looking for...we're more classic rock, not scream stuff.

How do I balance dangling the band over her head like a carrot so I can get the p****? I don't think I'd be her type otherwise...I'm the clean cut, all american guy type...she dates metalheads with long hair usually.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think it's the wrong type of woman you are after. I tried one like that, and it was pretty obvious that nothing good would come out of it.
 
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Even for sex/casual dating/friendship? It turns out she can actually sing pretty well and likes some of the music we like.
 
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