"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do I tell if girls are intimidated by me? I mean, when I'm walking down the halls, I can see girls looking at me, but as soon as I make eye contact, they look away. Maybe they just don't like me?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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wavejams007

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Dude, keep up the eye contact. Especially if you have nice eyes and you know it. Being able to look people in the eyes gives the idea of confidence and control of the situation.
 

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keep up the eye contact and trust me on this one...have you ever noticed when you do make good eye contact with a female and she keeps it locked....you kida get a euphoric almost queezy kind of feeling...that my friend is the euphoric feeling she may be feeling..its a feeling like being in love...that is EXACTLY what you want...DO NOT by all means be the one to break eye contact first. If she looks down it is a sign of submissiveness..which means by all means go for it...if she looks to the side like she is trying to find a better option,... she is,.. and this is a no go. In all cases if you DO feel like you are coming across as intimidating...Try breaking that intimidating look with a smile...not just any smirk but a smile showing bolth bottom and upper teeth. Think of something funny if you have to...The resaoning behind the full blown smile is because only confident men show bolth upper and lower teeth..and it dosent display a sign of nervousness. Nervous men only show either thier upper or no teeth at all...you dont want to come across as weak. Good posture is a definate plus at any time...a confident man wants to come across as strong and not weak looking at the ground or slouching like a wussy...Just a few tips to help you on your quest to become a DJ
 

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you know not everyone shows their teeth when they smile... i know i dont... i never have
 

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Yea I think many people including myself are not able to show their bottom teeth while "smiling." It looks more like some scary-ass grin when I do try to show top and bottom together.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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while it may not seem natural at first it can be pulled off...confident men flash teeth...wether it be bottom teeth showing or not...look at yourself in the mirror to see if it dose come across as goofy...you never know...you may see something you didnt before...REAL smiles hold themselves in your face while a fake smile will drop your face like someone just slapped you across the face...it takes practice to learn how to fake it without showing signs of nervousness
 

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The thing about eye contact, if you lock eyes with a girl and she quickly looks away to the side only to look back a moment later, is that a possible sign of interest?
 

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Well if she breaks eye contact very quick and then points to her throat. That means she really likes you most likely. If She then actually throws up thats the time to move in.
- Just a helpful hint.
 

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if she breaks it then reinstates eye contact... it is by all means a good sign but dont let just body lanuage be the determining factor in the whole deal...just go for it. You will NEVER know unless you talk to her and get a feel for her. Who knows...you might get the green light through body language but she might be thinking that you may look like someone she knows. Body lauguage is a good deterimining factor in the whole deal but like I said...you will never know unless you go for it
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Cile
The thing about eye contact, if you lock eyes with a girl and she quickly looks away to the side only to look back a moment later, is that a possible sign of interest?
Hey, guess what?

It doesn't matter.

If you give her the chance of getting to know you, she WILL be interested. This is the mindset of a DJ. Confidence is key.

Oh, by the way...Yes.
 

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a lot of people aren't used to eye contact, and will break it really quick if you aren't actuallyhaving a conversation with them. Try following up on that eye contact with some approaching!
 
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