"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do I tell if a woman is being friendly or flirting.

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A women in the grocery store started talking with me about
some green tea she saw me reading about. I wasn't sure if she was just dropping knowledge to help me or if she was interested .

How do you tell ?

I have some friends that think every woman thats nice to them wants them lol ..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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constantpro said:
A women in the grocery store started talking with me about
some green tea she saw me reading about. I wasn't sure if she was just dropping knowledge to help me or if she was interested .

How do you tell ?

I have some friends that think every woman thats nice to them wants them lol ..
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The door is open:

YOU start flirting with her, and see what happens.

If she wants to flirt she will. Game on.
 
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Mr. Me

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How can you tell? If it's not obvious to you, ask her for her phone number.
 
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Lok at it from this view, it doens't matter. IF she is then she is and if she isn't she isn't it's all about you and if you want her or not. If you do go get it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ask to see her again. If you get "I have a boyfriend" or "I'm a lesbian" then she isnt interested. If she is, you have a phone number and a coffee date.
 
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^^ up there. :crackup:

it doesn't matter. just ask her out & make moves. you'll find out then.
 
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JackPrescott said:
Ask to see her again. If you get "I have a boyfriend" or "I'm a lesbian" then she isnt interested. If she is, you have a phone number and a coffee date.
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I asked the chick for her number last week, and she said she had a boyfriend. I told her I didn't ask her about her problems, and she was stunned. She didn't know what to say. Then she said he was very sweet. I just told her that he would be very sweet if he cooked breakfast for us in the morning, and she just laughed her head off. Then I just walked away.
 
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I was wondering about this too. I have met chicks that would give me the common IOI's like light punches on the arm and they giggle/laugh about anything I say even if it wasnt that funny...I figured that maybe they were just nervous around me but not necessarily interested?
 
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Always assume the sale. Like Fonzie once said. sometimes when a girl says no, she means yes. But when she say's I'm calling the cops, she's serious.

Rebound Material, girls don't get nervous around guys they aren't interested in. Works the same if you reverse the sexes, yes?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nighthawk said:
Always assume the sale. Like Fonzie once said. sometimes when a girl says no, she means yes. But when she say's I'm calling the cops, she's serious.

Rebound Material, girls don't get nervous around guys they aren't interested in. Works the same if you reverse the sexes, yes?
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Great point.
 
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