"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A women in the grocery store started talking with me about
some green tea she saw me reading about. I wasn't sure if she was just dropping knowledge to help me or if she was interested .

How do you tell ?

I have some friends that think every woman thats nice to them wants them lol ..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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constantpro said:
A women in the grocery store started talking with me about
some green tea she saw me reading about. I wasn't sure if she was just dropping knowledge to help me or if she was interested .

How do you tell ?

I have some friends that think every woman thats nice to them wants them lol ..
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The door is open:

YOU start flirting with her, and see what happens.

If she wants to flirt she will. Game on.
 
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Mr. Me

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How can you tell? If it's not obvious to you, ask her for her phone number.
 
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Lok at it from this view, it doens't matter. IF she is then she is and if she isn't she isn't it's all about you and if you want her or not. If you do go get it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ask to see her again. If you get "I have a boyfriend" or "I'm a lesbian" then she isnt interested. If she is, you have a phone number and a coffee date.
 
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^^ up there. :crackup:

it doesn't matter. just ask her out & make moves. you'll find out then.
 
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JackPrescott said:
Ask to see her again. If you get "I have a boyfriend" or "I'm a lesbian" then she isnt interested. If she is, you have a phone number and a coffee date.
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I asked the chick for her number last week, and she said she had a boyfriend. I told her I didn't ask her about her problems, and she was stunned. She didn't know what to say. Then she said he was very sweet. I just told her that he would be very sweet if he cooked breakfast for us in the morning, and she just laughed her head off. Then I just walked away.
 
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I was wondering about this too. I have met chicks that would give me the common IOI's like light punches on the arm and they giggle/laugh about anything I say even if it wasnt that funny...I figured that maybe they were just nervous around me but not necessarily interested?
 
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Always assume the sale. Like Fonzie once said. sometimes when a girl says no, she means yes. But when she say's I'm calling the cops, she's serious.

Rebound Material, girls don't get nervous around guys they aren't interested in. Works the same if you reverse the sexes, yes?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nighthawk said:
Always assume the sale. Like Fonzie once said. sometimes when a girl says no, she means yes. But when she say's I'm calling the cops, she's serious.

Rebound Material, girls don't get nervous around guys they aren't interested in. Works the same if you reverse the sexes, yes?
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Great point.
 
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