Every time I'm close to dating/getting with a new girl, even If i don't want them for a ltr, when i see sure signs of them liking me and being interested I get anxious and depressed about being committed to them. This happens even when I'm only in it for the hookup and I've made that very clear to them. Also when i begin to like a girl i get freaked out about it and my attraction/feelings towards her shut off and I'm just left feeling depressed about it. This has been frustrating me for a long time and I'm sick of it ruining so many potential relationships and hook ups, what can I do about dealing with this and stopping it from happening?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How do I stop this?
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- Start date