"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do I stop my friend from being a fatty magnet?

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So I'm a freshman in college and so far its been going great. My good friend however has become a magnet for ugly girls. Hes not bad with women, but hes so nice and accommodating to the less desirable girls on the floor that they think they have a shot with him and will follow us to parties. He doesn't really have the heart to drive them away so its generally left up to me which puts me in an awkward spot.

Should I drive the fatties away with a stick and risk potentially alienating myself from her friends? How do I go about getting them to stop bothering us and make it clear we are not interested?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Scars

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I had a friend like this that I used to roll with back before he moved. Let me tell you, don't try and change him, let him do his thing. I'll tell you why.

My friend, we'll call him "T" was also very polite to fattys. He could spit some game (but it was mostly nice-guy game) and he got laid quite often. Infact, his lay number is/was nearly double mine, but my theory was simply because his standards were far less than mine.

Anyway, he became really handy at times. Have you ever been in a situation where you were macking on a hott girl and then her fat friend tries and CB? I used to have that problem, but not until I met "T". This guy was a "player" but he would seriously fvck anything with two legs, especially when he was drunk (which we almost always were). It was usually me, my friend "R", and my friend "T" and we'd roll like the 3 amigos. The glory days when we all used to party hop and get laid every weekend.. man, I miss those days. We actually used to make fun of him for being a "chunky chaser" but he didn't care. He wore the title with pride. In fact, his forte was chasing big woman or really older woman (he'd have a girlfriend and usually try to fvck her mom too, often times, he was actually successful). Totally went for the insecure girls that needed some "lovin" by every means of it. Anyway. You may see it as annoying and polluting your image now, but it's not you. Most fat girls have some hott friends, and vice versa. Use him to your advantage. If a girl ever clinged to me that I didn't like I would often just introduce them to "T" and they were off my balls instantly. He sarged, and he sarged HARD. Very persistent. Almost to the point where it was creepy. But he still managed to get laid. I actually miss him. But anyway, let your friend do his thing man. Look at it from outside the box. He may come in handy one night.

-Scars
 

PapiChulo

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Reeking of niceness. In college you have to be with the cool people who are surrounded by hot chicks. You loose points when people see you in the company of fat chicks. Make sure that doesn't happen.
 

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PapiChulo said:
Reeking of niceness. In college you have to be with the cool people who are surrounded by hot chicks. You loose points when people see you in the company of fat chicks. Make sure that doesn't happen.
This.

And read that thread about what kind of attention Pook got as he was building muscle and gaining weight; my theory is that your friend is small enough that fat girls think they have a chance with him.
 

jay_mo

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I agree with Scares.

1. you can use your friend to distract the hot chicks ****-blocking fat friends. If you meet a hot girl that has an ugly friend, she needs to be taken care of nicely - or the hot girl will not let you have her. You have a friend to do this for you voluntarily.

2. you are being afraid of what others are thinking of you. You are thinking other guys will think you´re into fat chicks. You think girls will think you´re low quality guy if you hang with ugly chicks. This means only one thing = you have bad confidence and low self esteem. That will keep you from getting girls. Stop to care... why should you care which people your friend brings with him? Go for their hot friends. Just have fun and stop to care.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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