“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How do I stop my friend from being a fatty magnet?

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So I'm a freshman in college and so far its been going great. My good friend however has become a magnet for ugly girls. Hes not bad with women, but hes so nice and accommodating to the less desirable girls on the floor that they think they have a shot with him and will follow us to parties. He doesn't really have the heart to drive them away so its generally left up to me which puts me in an awkward spot.

Should I drive the fatties away with a stick and risk potentially alienating myself from her friends? How do I go about getting them to stop bothering us and make it clear we are not interested?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I had a friend like this that I used to roll with back before he moved. Let me tell you, don't try and change him, let him do his thing. I'll tell you why.

My friend, we'll call him "T" was also very polite to fattys. He could spit some game (but it was mostly nice-guy game) and he got laid quite often. Infact, his lay number is/was nearly double mine, but my theory was simply because his standards were far less than mine.

Anyway, he became really handy at times. Have you ever been in a situation where you were macking on a hott girl and then her fat friend tries and CB? I used to have that problem, but not until I met "T". This guy was a "player" but he would seriously fvck anything with two legs, especially when he was drunk (which we almost always were). It was usually me, my friend "R", and my friend "T" and we'd roll like the 3 amigos. The glory days when we all used to party hop and get laid every weekend.. man, I miss those days. We actually used to make fun of him for being a "chunky chaser" but he didn't care. He wore the title with pride. In fact, his forte was chasing big woman or really older woman (he'd have a girlfriend and usually try to fvck her mom too, often times, he was actually successful). Totally went for the insecure girls that needed some "lovin" by every means of it. Anyway. You may see it as annoying and polluting your image now, but it's not you. Most fat girls have some hott friends, and vice versa. Use him to your advantage. If a girl ever clinged to me that I didn't like I would often just introduce them to "T" and they were off my balls instantly. He sarged, and he sarged HARD. Very persistent. Almost to the point where it was creepy. But he still managed to get laid. I actually miss him. But anyway, let your friend do his thing man. Look at it from outside the box. He may come in handy one night.

-Scars
 

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Reeking of niceness. In college you have to be with the cool people who are surrounded by hot chicks. You loose points when people see you in the company of fat chicks. Make sure that doesn't happen.
 

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PapiChulo said:
Reeking of niceness. In college you have to be with the cool people who are surrounded by hot chicks. You loose points when people see you in the company of fat chicks. Make sure that doesn't happen.
This.

And read that thread about what kind of attention Pook got as he was building muscle and gaining weight; my theory is that your friend is small enough that fat girls think they have a chance with him.
 

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I agree with Scares.

1. you can use your friend to distract the hot chicks ****-blocking fat friends. If you meet a hot girl that has an ugly friend, she needs to be taken care of nicely - or the hot girl will not let you have her. You have a friend to do this for you voluntarily.

2. you are being afraid of what others are thinking of you. You are thinking other guys will think you´re into fat chicks. You think girls will think you´re low quality guy if you hang with ugly chicks. This means only one thing = you have bad confidence and low self esteem. That will keep you from getting girls. Stop to care... why should you care which people your friend brings with him? Go for their hot friends. Just have fun and stop to care.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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