How do I stop caring?

[NFC]

So me and my gf have been having problems lately.. (we've both been kind of ignoring each other) and she messaged me on myspace friday and asked me "What's going on between us?" and I just basically told her straight up that I didn't feel like I've been getting the time I deserve, and that I'm always persueing.. and she never makes an attempt to see me. I logged on today and I know she saw it, it went from "sent" to "read" but she never replied back. So idk what the deal is.. I feel like she doesn't give a ****. To an extent, I don't give a **** either.. but there's still a part of me that wants/wanted(?) it to work. How do I just stop caring? I'm tired of her having such a hold on my thoughts.

 

[Nasman]

So me and my gf have been having problems lately.. (we've both been kind of ignoring each other) and she messaged me on myspace friday and asked me "What's going on between us?" and I just basically told her straight up that I didn't feel like I've been getting the time I deserve, and that I'm always persueing.. and she never makes an attempt to see me. I logged on today and I know she saw it, it went from "sent" to "read" but she never replied back. So idk what the deal is.. I feel like she doesn't give a ****. To an extent, I don't give a **** either.. but there's still a part of me that wants/wanted(?) it to work. How do I just stop caring? I'm tired of her having such a hold on my thoughts.

Hey dude sorry to hear that. I had a similiar situation happen to me not too long ago that is why I am here on this site.


U must face the facts she probably only like u as a friend. What u need to do to get over her is keep active, join a healthclub, take martial art.

If u start to look better u will feel better. The best remedy is to hook up with other girls.'


Best of luck to you dude.

 

[sav]

picture her getting fvcked right now by some other dude.. which is probably whats happening...

if that doesnt stop you from caring i dont know what will... and good luck!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

.... I feel like she doesn't give a ****. To an extent, I don't give a **** either.. but there's still a part of me that wants/wanted(?) it to work. How do I just stop caring? I'm tired of her having such a hold on my thoughts.

Not caring isn't going to get you out of your situation. Of course you want it to work but look around you, you guys can't even communicate with each other directly. Neither one of you are putting forth any effort to make things work so why waste energy as if you two are in a relationship? Quit trying to avoid the situation by attempting not to care about it, get up and do something!