So me and my gf have been having problems lately.. (we've both been kind of ignoring each other) and she messaged me on myspace friday and asked me "What's going on between us?" and I just basically told her straight up that I didn't feel like I've been getting the time I deserve, and that I'm always persueing.. and she never makes an attempt to see me. I logged on today and I know she saw it, it went from "sent" to "read" but she never replied back. So idk what the deal is.. I feel like she doesn't give a ****. To an extent, I don't give a **** either.. but there's still a part of me that wants/wanted(?) it to work. How do I just stop caring? I'm tired of her having such a hold on my thoughts.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How do I stop caring?
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