"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do I recover from this myspace message?

domino

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Ok so I start talking to this girl on myspace and everything starts off well until I screw up somewhere in the middle and in the end when I ask to hang out way to soon. I hav'nt messaged this girl in over a week in hopes of reseting everything so I can start all over despite the fact im in serious damage control situation any suggestion's to what I should do next? thanks



Domino: You look fun! we should talk sometime!

HB: sorry I kno im like a month late. But yea im very fun so lets talk. Wat r ur interest?

Domino: Im curious about what you are like, you look so exotic!!! I live in ***************. right now im just going to school and chillen with friends. What do you do for fun???

HB: wat makes u think im exotic? Theres no need to be curious jus get 2 kno me and we can go from there. Wat do u like n women?

Domino: Because you look like your puerto rican. are you??? The most important things for me are honesty trust and respect. I enjoy being open and saying whats really on my mind!

HB: yes i am puerto rican.

Domino: Thats cool lets meet .. somewhere in public tho, just in case you turn out to be a weirdo! lol


She read the message but no response??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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jdjd

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i personally would not meet up with anyone on myspace....

most of them pics are fake half the time....some u can tell are real...but hmm..
 

Dragon

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DonS.... well said :up:
 
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