"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do I recover from this myspace message?

domino

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Ok so I start talking to this girl on myspace and everything starts off well until I screw up somewhere in the middle and in the end when I ask to hang out way to soon. I hav'nt messaged this girl in over a week in hopes of reseting everything so I can start all over despite the fact im in serious damage control situation any suggestion's to what I should do next? thanks



Domino: You look fun! we should talk sometime!

HB: sorry I kno im like a month late. But yea im very fun so lets talk. Wat r ur interest?

Domino: Im curious about what you are like, you look so exotic!!! I live in ***************. right now im just going to school and chillen with friends. What do you do for fun???

HB: wat makes u think im exotic? Theres no need to be curious jus get 2 kno me and we can go from there. Wat do u like n women?

Domino: Because you look like your puerto rican. are you??? The most important things for me are honesty trust and respect. I enjoy being open and saying whats really on my mind!

HB: yes i am puerto rican.

Domino: Thats cool lets meet .. somewhere in public tho, just in case you turn out to be a weirdo! lol


She read the message but no response??
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jdjd

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i personally would not meet up with anyone on myspace....

most of them pics are fake half the time....some u can tell are real...but hmm..
 

Dragon

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DonS.... well said :up:
 
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