A female friend of mine brought her HB friend on Friday night to a dancing social. I did a couple of dances with the HB. We had good rapport. She laughed at all my ****y funny humor. . Was planning to snag her number at the end of the dance but when I looked for her afterwards, she had already left.
So I reached out to my friend the next day and asked her for HB's number. The friend got back to me eventually and said HB didn't want to give it and that "maybe next time I see her I should ask her myself". Ouch.
Was wondering what happened given how well I thought the interaction had went. And then it dawned on me that I must have looked like a total chump with no balls by going through the mutual friend to get her number. Ugh. How do I recover from this? What do I do next time I see her? Is this situation salvagable?
Lesson learn for you newbies. Sack up and ask her for the number during the high point of the interaction. Don't wait
So I reached out to my friend the next day and asked her for HB's number. The friend got back to me eventually and said HB didn't want to give it and that "maybe next time I see her I should ask her myself". Ouch.
Was wondering what happened given how well I thought the interaction had went. And then it dawned on me that I must have looked like a total chump with no balls by going through the mutual friend to get her number. Ugh. How do I recover from this? What do I do next time I see her? Is this situation salvagable?
Lesson learn for you newbies. Sack up and ask her for the number during the high point of the interaction. Don't wait
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