"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do I pull this one off

S.Y.L

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My band is playing a pretty big concert soon, and my cousin and her friend are coming. Her friend is really hot, and I wouldn't mind gettin some of that.


How would I manage to get my cousins friend, invite her backstage I guess? But what about my cousin, should I get one of my friends to hook up with her, so her friend wont be distracted?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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intrextrovert

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Invite both backstage, along with any other cool people you want, chill with them and your band and backstage people, game the girl like normal except you're a rockstar for the night so you've got a 99% chance she'll get with you without trying as long as you act like her image of you (act crazy/ballsy).
 

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intrextrovert said:
Invite both backstage, along with any other cool people you want, chill with them and your band and backstage people, game the girl like normal except you're a rockstar for the night so you've got a 99% chance she'll get with you without trying as long as you act like her image of you (act crazy/ballsy).
lol, that sounds good enough haha. I have hung out with her cousin before though, so its not like she completely doesnt know me.
 

Don't Panic

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I've been in that situation, just invite them backstage and be sure to put on a good show chill out with her afterwards and it'll be smooth sailing. Heck you have the perfect motive "let's go out celebrate".

But I have to stress this, put on a GOOD show and she won't be the only puss available to you afterwards.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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frisco

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Walk up to her after the concert, ask her if she enjoyed it smile and tell her to come back stage grab her hand and escort her to the backstage area along with any friends she has. Trust me I have pulled this off except i was the guy in the crowd and My backstage was a campfire and our RV's
 
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