"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My band is playing a pretty big concert soon, and my cousin and her friend are coming. Her friend is really hot, and I wouldn't mind gettin some of that.


How would I manage to get my cousins friend, invite her backstage I guess? But what about my cousin, should I get one of my friends to hook up with her, so her friend wont be distracted?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Invite both backstage, along with any other cool people you want, chill with them and your band and backstage people, game the girl like normal except you're a rockstar for the night so you've got a 99% chance she'll get with you without trying as long as you act like her image of you (act crazy/ballsy).
 
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intrextrovert said:
Invite both backstage, along with any other cool people you want, chill with them and your band and backstage people, game the girl like normal except you're a rockstar for the night so you've got a 99% chance she'll get with you without trying as long as you act like her image of you (act crazy/ballsy).
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lol, that sounds good enough haha. I have hung out with her cousin before though, so its not like she completely doesnt know me.
 
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I've been in that situation, just invite them backstage and be sure to put on a good show chill out with her afterwards and it'll be smooth sailing. Heck you have the perfect motive "let's go out celebrate".

But I have to stress this, put on a GOOD show and she won't be the only puss available to you afterwards.
 
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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Walk up to her after the concert, ask her if she enjoyed it smile and tell her to come back stage grab her hand and escort her to the backstage area along with any friends she has. Trust me I have pulled this off except i was the guy in the crowd and My backstage was a campfire and our RV's
 
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