"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How Do I Not Look Like A Creep When Approaching

BBX

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So how can i best possibly do this while still getting my point across. Part of the reason may be i need more experence, but what else is there to a successful approach without looking creepy
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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looking creepy?? OMG!!! WDF is wrong with you, or is it me?? Srry i am in the bad mood right now...............................creepy is a scary thing! When micheal jackson approached 15 year old teen, he looked creepy at first!! But guess what, after the first date they were making out in the neverland!!
 

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Are you hot?

It's never creepy if your hotter than her.
 

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Stop being creepy= you wont feel creepy= you wont think youre being creepy= she wont think youre creepy
 

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I'm better than average looking but I think i'm intimidating somewhat like i'm dangerous. I mean, maybe its just me, but I fell like a creep if i'm approaching a girl or trying to hit on a girl or whatever. Maybe its in my head.

I'm not creepy, but if I hit on a girl they seem flustered and don't know how to react.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BBX said:
I'm better than average looking but I think i'm intimidating somewhat like i'm dangerous. I mean, maybe its just me, but I fell like a creep if i'm approaching a girl or trying to hit on a girl or whatever. Maybe its in my head.

I'm not creepy, but if I hit on a girl they seem flustered and don't know how to react.


I dont get it!! Were you get those questions from?? Do i look creepy??? WDF is that?? HOw da **** you gonna look creepy???? Are you a crackhead or something?? ASk youself these questions: 1) Am I GAY?? 2)Am I retarded?? 3)Am i crackhead??? 4) I have no cofidence?? 5) Am I shy?? 6) Do i LOOK like Micheal Jackson??



If the answers to those questions are all NO, then your probably not human..

if you approach a girl: smeling like shyt, looking like a crackhead with ripped shirt, and beat up by a punk, then saying something like "Wanna fukk, to a girl, then YES you are creepy, If you are just imagining things, then your are probably overreacting.. Good luck, next time ask a girl if she is creepy, i hope you will get better advise from her.. We are here to punk the rock:rockon: :rockon: :rockon: not to give advise on "Am I fukkin creepy??" bull
 

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Dude, how do you even give advice to something like this? Holy ****, if you creep yourself out, you have issues. Oh wait, here we go:

1. Seek mental help
2. Un-**** yourself
3. Seek more mental help
4. Get over it
5. Move on
 

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Those guys are getting pissed because it's common for a girl to think your creepy if you suddenly approach random women and they know it.

Bad memories guys?

Doesn't really mean anything though, you'll probally still end up getting somewhere. :up:
 
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