"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do I NEXT this girl?

mcmellow

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So I've decided to let go of my AFC ways and start fresh but I have a little problem. There is this girl that I've really liked for like a year in my class; to make a long story short, I've realized that I probably won't have anything intimate with her, so I wanna NEXT her. The hard thing is I see this girl everyday at school and we take the same classes so basically we have to interact somewhat. I really wanna move on, but having her around really fvcks me up and doesn't let me act like the don juan I'm aspiring to be. What should I do, any ideas would be appreciated.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mcmellow

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Yea, I wish it was that easy. This girl is evil. Everytime I start talking to other girls she starts flirting with me again. Then when I do give her the time of day, she blows me off.
 

shydude

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HAHA, she is anoyoing isnt she, abd you cant tell her to go fukk herself, couse she is a girl!! Umm how old are you guys?? COuse thats really immature!! If you didnt told her to cut the crap, then you should do it tomorow.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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True Wolf

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Yeah, this chick is a *****, if you wanna really convice yourself that she's evil imagine her commiting mass genocide by nerve gas on leprachauns, that'll put her in perspective lol!
 
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