"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do I NEXT this girl?

mcmellow

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So I've decided to let go of my AFC ways and start fresh but I have a little problem. There is this girl that I've really liked for like a year in my class; to make a long story short, I've realized that I probably won't have anything intimate with her, so I wanna NEXT her. The hard thing is I see this girl everyday at school and we take the same classes so basically we have to interact somewhat. I really wanna move on, but having her around really fvcks me up and doesn't let me act like the don juan I'm aspiring to be. What should I do, any ideas would be appreciated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mcmellow

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Yea, I wish it was that easy. This girl is evil. Everytime I start talking to other girls she starts flirting with me again. Then when I do give her the time of day, she blows me off.
 

shydude

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HAHA, she is anoyoing isnt she, abd you cant tell her to go fukk herself, couse she is a girl!! Umm how old are you guys?? COuse thats really immature!! If you didnt told her to cut the crap, then you should do it tomorow.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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True Wolf

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Yeah, this chick is a *****, if you wanna really convice yourself that she's evil imagine her commiting mass genocide by nerve gas on leprachauns, that'll put her in perspective lol!
 
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