Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I don't really see what you could do for that. sorry.Originally posted by Epic
It sticks out when I look at it from the side. It just doesn't look right at all.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Originally posted by Epic
My butt is too big and I want to make it smaller. I always wear shirts that cover up my butt so that no one can see it. It sticks out farther than it should. I was wondering if there are any workouts specializing in that area or certain diets that I could do to help tone it down. Thanks in advance.
squats would make your ass even BIGGER. Not what he wants.Originally posted by Krassus
Make sure you incorporate squats and deadlifts into your exercise program, and do High Intensity Interval Cardio 3-4 days a week.
http://www.exrx.net/Lists/ExList/HipsWt.html#anchor169231
Originally posted by DIESEL
squats would make your ass even BIGGER. Not what he wants.
Unless he's fat, the problem is likely structural and there is nothing he can do about it.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.