Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I don't really see what you could do for that. sorry.Originally posted by Epic
It sticks out when I look at it from the side. It just doesn't look right at all.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Originally posted by Epic
My butt is too big and I want to make it smaller. I always wear shirts that cover up my butt so that no one can see it. It sticks out farther than it should. I was wondering if there are any workouts specializing in that area or certain diets that I could do to help tone it down. Thanks in advance.
squats would make your ass even BIGGER. Not what he wants.Originally posted by Krassus
Make sure you incorporate squats and deadlifts into your exercise program, and do High Intensity Interval Cardio 3-4 days a week.
http://www.exrx.net/Lists/ExList/HipsWt.html#anchor169231
Originally posted by DIESEL
squats would make your ass even BIGGER. Not what he wants.
Unless he's fat, the problem is likely structural and there is nothing he can do about it.
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.