"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do I make it kind of clear that I want to spend the night at her place

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This girl left her stuff at my place and I told her i was going to come bring it over her place and she told me to wait till thursdsy cause she had exams and shiz. Ive already slept over there with her like 3 times so far.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think telling her you are going to crash at her place would work.
 
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I've already slept over there with her like 3 times so far.
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Have you had sex or not?

Either way, I present you with 2 options:

1. Make out with her until you're inside. Once you're in her bed, it'll probably take a long time until you have to leave.

2. Say it.
 
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Ringleader41 said:
This girl left her stuff at my place and I told her i was going to come bring it over her place and she told me to wait till thursdsy cause she had exams and shiz. Ive already slept over there with her like 3 times so far.
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Bring your pj's toothbrush, toothpaste etc. with her stuff and hand it all to her. When she tells you "Oh these are yours" say "Oh well. Guess that means I'm staying over your place tonight."
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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