"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How do I make it kind of clear that I want to spend the night at her place

Ringleader41

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This girl left her stuff at my place and I told her i was going to come bring it over her place and she told me to wait till thursdsy cause she had exams and shiz. Ive already slept over there with her like 3 times so far.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think telling her you are going to crash at her place would work.
 

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I've already slept over there with her like 3 times so far.
Have you had sex or not?

Either way, I present you with 2 options:

1. Make out with her until you're inside. Once you're in her bed, it'll probably take a long time until you have to leave.

2. Say it.
 

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Ringleader41 said:
This girl left her stuff at my place and I told her i was going to come bring it over her place and she told me to wait till thursdsy cause she had exams and shiz. Ive already slept over there with her like 3 times so far.

Bring your pj's toothbrush, toothpaste etc. with her stuff and hand it all to her. When she tells you "Oh these are yours" say "Oh well. Guess that means I'm staying over your place tonight."
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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