"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do I make friends?

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Freethrowking

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I've been studying DYD for almost a year and have branched around to other things like DJing. How can I make friends with DJ types? How can I go about making friends at all? I'm not incompetent by any means, but I've got a major hang up with talking to completely random people without a reason. What are some situations I can put myself in to make some friends?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I hate to see your thread standing here with no replies. Looks to me your on the right path already. Keep posting in the forums, do some reading and research, take a dance class or something of the sort. Do something, anything, to better yourself and you will meet people on the way and also grow as a person.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Find people that you would have a reason to talk to. Mainly people with similar interests. This forum is a start, you may want to look for wingmen in your area. Also hang out in places with people who do things that you enjoy doing.
 
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most friends are made through shared activites eg sport
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I make my friends out of clay... that way if they piss me off I can shatter them with a hammer. LOL

seriously, GET OUT, and just talk to people... I'm not saying act like a friggin jehova's witness and go randomly door knocking, get out, and STUDY people, watch, and observe.. find people with similar interests, and strike up a convo. its not as hard as you may think it is, bro...
 
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