"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey napoleon, get a longer fringe with that hairstyle, gives ya a sort of 80s new romantics feel plus it hides a shiny slaphead too! I've got the same style as that guy in the pic apart from my fringe goes diagnally across my forehead and reaches my one eye...it's the longest I've had it but man it looks good! And different too!! Try it!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No I am not, but I took better, and WILL take better photos for the future, no.
 

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You're goodlooking but not enought to turn heads when walking into a bar.
 

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LOL, I just wanted to know if I would turn heads AWAY from me not the other way round, or stomachs;)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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napoleon said:
I was talking online with this girl and sent her this shi tty pic (I KNOW it's ****ty, but what fuk it)- and she said- let's better not meet.
That's impossible! BULLSHYT. Quit lying! Girls "don't care" about looks! We all know that "looks don't matter!"

And we all know that whatever a bunch of virgins say on a messageboard > real life...right? :D
 

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Dude, I know a guy who looks just like you who gets a$$. I means hes gotta be one of the smoothest guys I know. Your fine.
 

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She said I'll give you another chance to send me a better pic- I say fak you, you superficial b1tch;)
 

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Trojan said:
Dude, I know a guy who looks just like you who gets a$$. I means hes gotta be one of the smoothest guys I know. Your fine.
OK, thanks man, so it's not back to the plastic surgeon, but back to the drawing board.
 

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and she said- let's better not meet.
I'm sorry but you HAVE to respect a girl that will say something like that..



-Cod3r
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I agree, better to let me know no, also in a club, than lead me on and waste my time.
 

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Gay and stupid. Pretty much sums up this entire place. If you are gay looks mean everything. Well, looks and age. Obviously you boys have your gay hats on when you enter this forum.

Wanna know how good looking you are? Ask yourself how much money do you have compared to the guys around you? That pretty much sums up how good looking every male on this earth is. Money...Money...Money...Money...Money. You gotta have more than the other guys around you. In America that means you should be worth at least $10 million liquid (America is a b****). With that much money you might be able to get a thin girl who hasn't slept with every frat. boy and high school football stud that she has been around. If you move to Ukraine I would say an American passport and an a$$ to sit on the metro is all you need to get a covergirl.
 

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Well, in a year and a half, after I finish college and army, I'll be a manager and will earn, well not a lot, but more than 80% of the population.
 

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Just remember, MONEY IS SEXY. I am not here to debate if this is the way things should be, but none of us are going to change that reality. I have yet to find a place on earth where money isn't king. People kill for it, they screw best friends over for it, they have sex for it, they sell their children for it, they start wars for it, etc.

How you look is simply a nice topping to the overall sundae. Nobody buys a sundae for the chocolate shavings. Remember that.

Confident look??? When you have more money than 98% of the fools around you I promise you that confident look will be yours. If you don't believe me just go for a few days to Moldova. Take a picture of yourself when you are there. Compare how it looks to the ones that you posted. You will notice a big difference.
 

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^ ^ No one is disagreeing with you... relax


-Cod3r
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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whitning strips are safer than dental bleaching kits.. because they dont remove your enamle like dental bleach, unless you get lasser whitning wich is safe for your enamel.. but either way you will so much more confident...

crest whiting strips 20-30 bucks
lasser whiting 400-800 bucks

i would buy some nice cloths to match my smile with the savings if i was you
 

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napoleon said:
after I finish college and army.
Does that mean you're gonna get sent to Iraq? I thought the army wasn't the best job to have, UK and US!
 

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Lol, no, Im from Croatia, military service is mandatory, but I will serve it as a civilian (I dont want some sargeant fuking me in the ass every night, figuratively and literrary).
Civillian means I wont live in the barracks, but home, wont do millitary drills, but will, for instance work in an old man's home, or hospital. It's like volonteer work, but the state tells you where to volonteer.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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