"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how do i LJBF a girl?

Amazing

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there is a pretty cool girl I met last weekend, was drunk and was making out dancing with her. she has a nice place downtown and is genuinely cool, but there is little physical attraction there.

i want to contact her tomorrow and see if she wants to bring out some friends/may be pregame at her place or meet up, but I dont want her to **** block me when we go out and need to make it clear we are going to be just friends

so what do i say when i text/call her?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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pipe007

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just go out with her and keep to yourself, joke around but DO NOT escalate.... of course.

she'll take the hint... she might pursue you in light that you are not chasing her....

so what... its your choice to decide not to hit on her or reciprocate... just be cool man.. just dont go there if you dont want to and learn to chill with a girl that likes you knowing full well that you can decide not to do SH1t about it
 
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