"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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how do i LJBF a girl?

Amazing

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there is a pretty cool girl I met last weekend, was drunk and was making out dancing with her. she has a nice place downtown and is genuinely cool, but there is little physical attraction there.

i want to contact her tomorrow and see if she wants to bring out some friends/may be pregame at her place or meet up, but I dont want her to **** block me when we go out and need to make it clear we are going to be just friends

so what do i say when i text/call her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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just go out with her and keep to yourself, joke around but DO NOT escalate.... of course.

she'll take the hint... she might pursue you in light that you are not chasing her....

so what... its your choice to decide not to hit on her or reciprocate... just be cool man.. just dont go there if you dont want to and learn to chill with a girl that likes you knowing full well that you can decide not to do SH1t about it
 
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