"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how do i keep this girl interested in me long enough till i meet her?

guayaballer

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theres this girl i met on myspace through a friend weve been talkin online for a really long time. im finally going to meet her at a frends party the 22nd of sept. wenever i talk to her online it feels like if i keep talkin to her like this shes eventually going to feel that im just a friend her friend said she likes me so until then how can i get the convo like more intimate like how can i start slipping in the idea that she can be more then a friend. i want to keep her interest up high romantically until the party where i can start using kino closing in and well isolate. and would it b easier to get her thinkin as me as a potential bf online o on the phone
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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uhhhhh, dont talk to her online anymore. plain and simple. just a couple "hey, how are you"'s are fine. but tell her you wont be online much anymore because youre going to be busy for a couple weeks.

and this applies to phone as well... how weird is it getting intimate over the phone and online to someone you never met. it sounds lame and gay as hell.

just make sure every other time you talk to her remind her that you're looking to see her at the party... but dont be desperate and do it each time.

you are sounding desperate or something.

1: get offline and off the phone
2: no more desperation
3: don't log into myspace every day when you tell her you wont be on for a while


and how you asked "and would it b easier to get her thinkin as me as a potential bf online o on the phone"

the answer is... in person... do it all in person.
 

muzicfreak2k3

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good post man.... kidna applies to me too..thx
 
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