"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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how do i keep this girl interested in me long enough till i meet her?

guayaballer

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theres this girl i met on myspace through a friend weve been talkin online for a really long time. im finally going to meet her at a frends party the 22nd of sept. wenever i talk to her online it feels like if i keep talkin to her like this shes eventually going to feel that im just a friend her friend said she likes me so until then how can i get the convo like more intimate like how can i start slipping in the idea that she can be more then a friend. i want to keep her interest up high romantically until the party where i can start using kino closing in and well isolate. and would it b easier to get her thinkin as me as a potential bf online o on the phone
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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uhhhhh, dont talk to her online anymore. plain and simple. just a couple "hey, how are you"'s are fine. but tell her you wont be online much anymore because youre going to be busy for a couple weeks.

and this applies to phone as well... how weird is it getting intimate over the phone and online to someone you never met. it sounds lame and gay as hell.

just make sure every other time you talk to her remind her that you're looking to see her at the party... but dont be desperate and do it each time.

you are sounding desperate or something.

1: get offline and off the phone
2: no more desperation
3: don't log into myspace every day when you tell her you wont be on for a while


and how you asked "and would it b easier to get her thinkin as me as a potential bf online o on the phone"

the answer is... in person... do it all in person.
 

muzicfreak2k3

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good post man.... kidna applies to me too..thx
 
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