"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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how do i keep this girl interested in me long enough till i meet her?

guayaballer

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theres this girl i met on myspace through a friend weve been talkin online for a really long time. im finally going to meet her at a frends party the 22nd of sept. wenever i talk to her online it feels like if i keep talkin to her like this shes eventually going to feel that im just a friend her friend said she likes me so until then how can i get the convo like more intimate like how can i start slipping in the idea that she can be more then a friend. i want to keep her interest up high romantically until the party where i can start using kino closing in and well isolate. and would it b easier to get her thinkin as me as a potential bf online o on the phone
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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uhhhhh, dont talk to her online anymore. plain and simple. just a couple "hey, how are you"'s are fine. but tell her you wont be online much anymore because youre going to be busy for a couple weeks.

and this applies to phone as well... how weird is it getting intimate over the phone and online to someone you never met. it sounds lame and gay as hell.

just make sure every other time you talk to her remind her that you're looking to see her at the party... but dont be desperate and do it each time.

you are sounding desperate or something.

1: get offline and off the phone
2: no more desperation
3: don't log into myspace every day when you tell her you wont be on for a while


and how you asked "and would it b easier to get her thinkin as me as a potential bf online o on the phone"

the answer is... in person... do it all in person.
 

muzicfreak2k3

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good post man.... kidna applies to me too..thx
 
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