Yo. I'm gonna make this quick. There's this girl at my church....who well to say the least is a cutie. I know for a fact that she doesn't have a boy friend. I used to see her in the youth group, but now I'm in College group and she's still in high school. The only time I see her is in the church meeting area place. So how do I introduce myself?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How do I introduce myself??
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Smooth Player 056
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Use this line:Originally posted by girlsrock
Yo. I'm gonna make this quick. There's this girl at my church....who well to say the least is a cutie. I know for a fact that she doesn't have a boy friend. I used to see her in the youth group, but now I'm in College group and she's still in high school. The only time I see her is in the church meeting area place. So how do I introduce myself?
""Excuse me (to get her to stop) I just wanted to say thank you."
Her curiosity bells just went DING. She'll almost inevitably ask why, though it is ok if she doesn't. Move into standard mirroring and rapport building techniques as you continue...
"Have you ever had one of those days where, you find yourself feeling sort of aloof... you're not really happy, but not really sad either... you just feel like your adrift. Then suddenly you find you bump into somebody with an incredibly warm and beautiful smile that just makes you feel wonderful for the rest of the day?"
She will almost surely smile more at this point, or give some degree of positive response.
- Smooth Player 056 -
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: How do I introduce myself??
Dude... that's pretty good! I'm definitely gonna use that!Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Use this line:
""Excuse me (to get her to stop) I just wanted to say thank you."
Her curiosity bells just went DING. She'll almost inevitably ask why, though it is ok if she doesn't. Move into standard mirroring and rapport building techniques as you continue...
"Have you ever had one of those days where, you find yourself feeling sort of aloof... you're not really happy, but not really sad either... you just feel like your adrift. Then suddenly you find you bump into somebody with an incredibly warm and beautiful smile that just makes you feel wonderful for the rest of the day?"
She will almost surely smile more at this point, or give some degree of positive response.
- Smooth Player 056 -
Re: Re: How do I introduce myself??
"oh nothing, i just wanted an excuse to talk to you."
i like that. u could just say after the "Excuse me (to get her to stop) I just wanted to say thank you." bit. if she says "thank you for what ?"Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Use this line:
""Excuse me (to get her to stop) I just wanted to say thank you."
Her curiosity bells just went DING. She'll almost inevitably ask why, though it is ok if she doesn't. Move into standard mirroring and rapport building techniques as you continue...
"Have you ever had one of those days where, you find yourself feeling sort of aloof... you're not really happy, but not really sad either... you just feel like your adrift. Then suddenly you find you bump into somebody with an incredibly warm and beautiful smile that just makes you feel wonderful for the rest of the day?"
She will almost surely smile more at this point, or give some degree of positive response.
- Smooth Player 056 -
"oh nothing, i just wanted an excuse to talk to you."
Smooth Player 056
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Yeah that line is an all purpose opener for me. I use it all the time when i cant think of anything else
practice it so it sounds natural
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practice it so it sounds natural
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Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Founder of Ultimate HSDJ Technique
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dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: How do I introduce myself??
ahhah for some reason i've never been a big smoothplayer fan but my god i wanna try that.
nice.
Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Use this line:
""Excuse me (to get her to stop) I just wanted to say thank you."
Her curiosity bells just went DING. She'll almost inevitably ask why, though it is ok if she doesn't. Move into standard mirroring and rapport building techniques as you continue...
"Have you ever had one of those days where, you find yourself feeling sort of aloof... you're not really happy, but not really sad either... you just feel like your adrift. Then suddenly you find you bump into somebody with an incredibly warm and beautiful smile that just makes you feel wonderful for the rest of the day?"
She will almost surely smile more at this point, or give some degree of positive response.
- Smooth Player 056 -
ahhah for some reason i've never been a big smoothplayer fan but my god i wanna try that.
nice.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: How do I introduce myself??
it is something that would be good, but i dont see myself saying something like that because it is just not my style, so i would come off as fake.
yea either put a lot of practice into saying that or be a natural smooth operator.Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Use this line:
""Excuse me (to get her to stop) I just wanted to say thank you."
Her curiosity bells just went DING. She'll almost inevitably ask why, though it is ok if she doesn't. Move into standard mirroring and rapport building techniques as you continue...
"Have you ever had one of those days where, you find yourself feeling sort of aloof... you're not really happy, but not really sad either... you just feel like your adrift. Then suddenly you find you bump into somebody with an incredibly warm and beautiful smile that just makes you feel wonderful for the rest of the day?"
She will almost surely smile more at this point, or give some degree of positive response.
- Smooth Player 056 -
it is something that would be good, but i dont see myself saying something like that because it is just not my style, so i would come off as fake.
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
You shouldnt introduce yourself. You should wait for others to ask your name, it establishes a pattern of them descovering info about you... a pattern where they work to chase after you. Once someone asks your name provide your first, last, and your ethnicity. This surplus of information serves a dual purpose:
-It is a conversation leg. They can talk about their ancestory/last name
MORE IMPORTANTLY-It strengthens the pattern you created by letting them ask your name. First, you subconciously allowed them to chase you. Second, you rewarded them with interesting information beyond their expectations for their chase. This tempts them to chase futher and faster.
Smooth, if you post that approach like its yours, or any other COPYWRITTEN material Ill shoot Allen (the guy who runs the site) an email. Dont playgerize... years of some PUAs experience went into the development of that, and other all purpose openers. Its good that you want to share them, but understand that sosuave is NOT fast seduction, nor will it EVER be; and understand that it is not right for you to pass off masf material as your own.
-It is a conversation leg. They can talk about their ancestory/last name
MORE IMPORTANTLY-It strengthens the pattern you created by letting them ask your name. First, you subconciously allowed them to chase you. Second, you rewarded them with interesting information beyond their expectations for their chase. This tempts them to chase futher and faster.
Smooth, if you post that approach like its yours, or any other COPYWRITTEN material Ill shoot Allen (the guy who runs the site) an email. Dont playgerize... years of some PUAs experience went into the development of that, and other all purpose openers. Its good that you want to share them, but understand that sosuave is NOT fast seduction, nor will it EVER be; and understand that it is not right for you to pass off masf material as your own.