How do I improve my telephone GAME

[SELF-MASTERY]

In person I am golden and I am money. On the telephone my game isn't as fine tuned. Should I only call to schedule dates? Maybe keep it slow and simple and end the call on a high note.

 

[Iwantahottie]

u must have great body language

 

[Skweints]

Originally posted by dementia
depends.

If its from a cold approach, got the number, now setting up a date. You need to take them back into the frame of mind where they met you <--- i dont think this is stressed enough on this site. It really DOES make a difference.

I usually say some stuff like:

"How was the rest of your night in the club... i had fun hanging out with you... it was funny when this and thsi happened, remember?"

Oh my GOD this is golden. Dementia, GREAT call. You're absolutely right on this. I never use to bother doing that, and just set up the time and date. I learned about this trick when I called up this one girl who I really wasn't expecting to set up a date with, then we got on the topic of what we did last time, and next thing I know, she's asking me when the soonest it was we could get together. I talked to one of my GOOD friends about this, and he said that, when setting up for the next date, ALWAYS bring something up that happened in the last date, usually something out of the ordinary and personal between the both of you. It helps to create a personal connection between you and her, and when a girl feels that there is a connection between you and her, she will not give up NEARLY as easily as if there was no connection.

F*ckin KUDO's man... you just inspired my *ss! lol

 

[baracus]

You can practice by making crank calls to pizza places. Tell them you want 2 large pies with everything on them delivered to your neighbor's house. In about 30-45 minutes look out the window and your confidence will soar.

 

[Skweints]

Originally posted by baracus
You can practice by making crank calls to pizza places. Tell them you want 2 large pies with everything on them delivered to your neighbor's house. In about 30-45 minutes look out the window and your confidence will soar.

You've got to be kidding me...

 

[Tha Realnezz]

I try to multi-task when I'm on the phone.

It keeps me from getting bored and brings up subjects to talk to about to prevent long awkard silences.

 

[ShizamDaMan]

Keep it short and simple, stupid.

My phone convos with girls are rarely longer than 2 or 3 minutes. To setup a date it's usually less than a minute and a half.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

I think I'll use dementia's advice, It seems nice and simple.

 

[SpeedRunner]

im gonna endorse dementias advice too