"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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As Doc Love puts it, this guy is known as a "Blocker" He is showing her how cool of a guy YOU ARE! Not himself, he is constantly trying to get her attention, proving he has no life, he is trying so hard that you look like Casanova! Yes this will happen all the time when you get a hot girl, play it cool, unless this guy knows what he is doing, which he doesn't, so its all good. Tell her to confront him, get her to even ditch the friend zone with him, it gives her comfort, and makes it easier for him to gain her interest. She knows he's a loser so let her deal with it, if on the other hand someone who knows what they are doing and can gain her interest comes along, tell her what situation she is in, then hope she does the same, if not, its a possible NEXT!

Cheers!
 

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haahaahah! initially I was just worried for her safety with the first guy, now the second guy just really amuses me

how texbook AFC he is...
 
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why worry so much? after all, you are just her "casual" boyfriend
 
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You guys are giving this guy props and imo hes just as big a loser as the other guys hitting on the girl.

Isnt it obvious that shes playing them all? Somehow these guys are getting her number, plus they dont just magically appear out of thin air to where this guy and the girl are going. She's obviously telling/inviting them. Plus, shes making SURE to tell him allll about allll of these guys hitting on her. ANd hes totally falling for it.

Dude, you're being played and you dont even know it, and that makes you worse than even the other guys. Let it go.
 
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Thank you for your perspective. I have totally considered that.

I care for her because she's a good friend, we connect on many levels.
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That's bull**** and you know it. We're guys, we understand. Find another girlfriend.
 
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HAhahaha, I plan to next her sometime soon anyways.
Not because of this at all though, shame, since we are good friends but there is no love.


Sat night, the latest guy follows here around several clubs (they try to ditch him several times,) he was saying something about killing himself (LOL!) and she told him off.

Hahahahah, poor chump, I was NEVER that bad. Still gonna next her.

And if anyone that knows me in real life and is reading this, take it with a grain of salt. Hah.
 
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