"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do I help ditch the AFC bugging my girl?

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As Doc Love puts it, this guy is known as a "Blocker" He is showing her how cool of a guy YOU ARE! Not himself, he is constantly trying to get her attention, proving he has no life, he is trying so hard that you look like Casanova! Yes this will happen all the time when you get a hot girl, play it cool, unless this guy knows what he is doing, which he doesn't, so its all good. Tell her to confront him, get her to even ditch the friend zone with him, it gives her comfort, and makes it easier for him to gain her interest. She knows he's a loser so let her deal with it, if on the other hand someone who knows what they are doing and can gain her interest comes along, tell her what situation she is in, then hope she does the same, if not, its a possible NEXT!

Cheers!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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haahaahah! initially I was just worried for her safety with the first guy, now the second guy just really amuses me

how texbook AFC he is...
 
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why worry so much? after all, you are just her "casual" boyfriend
 
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You guys are giving this guy props and imo hes just as big a loser as the other guys hitting on the girl.

Isnt it obvious that shes playing them all? Somehow these guys are getting her number, plus they dont just magically appear out of thin air to where this guy and the girl are going. She's obviously telling/inviting them. Plus, shes making SURE to tell him allll about allll of these guys hitting on her. ANd hes totally falling for it.

Dude, you're being played and you dont even know it, and that makes you worse than even the other guys. Let it go.
 
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Thank you for your perspective. I have totally considered that.

I care for her because she's a good friend, we connect on many levels.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That's bull**** and you know it. We're guys, we understand. Find another girlfriend.
 
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HAhahaha, I plan to next her sometime soon anyways.
Not because of this at all though, shame, since we are good friends but there is no love.


Sat night, the latest guy follows here around several clubs (they try to ditch him several times,) he was saying something about killing himself (LOL!) and she told him off.

Hahahahah, poor chump, I was NEVER that bad. Still gonna next her.

And if anyone that knows me in real life and is reading this, take it with a grain of salt. Hah.
 
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