Yea, I don't wanna start a flame war or anything. Honestly though, I'm done with my 'truth absorbing'. Yea, I probably won't answer his call and just keep truckin. I'm actually about to head out soon to meet up with this new girl
G'luck to yah.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How do I handle this?
- Thread starter notorio
- Start date
G'luck to yah.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Re: Re: How do I handle this?
The reality is, no guy makes a move without being led by the girl. She's the one that allow things to escalate to the bedroom. This is 2005 baby, no man is going to force himself on a woman in that sense.
Your anger should be directed at the girl. She's gone.
I've been cheated on, and the most common reaction is to want to beat the living hell out of the guy.
The reality is, no guy makes a move without being led by the girl. She's the one that allow things to escalate to the bedroom. This is 2005 baby, no man is going to force himself on a woman in that sense.
Your anger should be directed at the girl. She's gone.