"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do I handle this?

notorio

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Originally posted by Melvin
notorio: Relax, I'm not bashing you at all. Sometimes the truth isn't easy to absorb.

As a DJ you seem to be doing fine, much better than I am at the moment, trust me. You seem to have no problems getting laid so for that I commend you. Keep doing what you're doing but don't sweat the minimal stuff like wondering what to do about this guy calling you. Either don't pick up the phone or if you pick it up let the guy know it doesn't matter and be on your way. Simple.

Good luck.
Yea, I don't wanna start a flame war or anything. Honestly though, I'm done with my 'truth absorbing'. Yea, I probably won't answer his call and just keep truckin. I'm actually about to head out soon to meet up with this new girl :)

G'luck to yah.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ikkenai

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Re: Re: How do I handle this?

Originally posted by darth yoda
Cut off all contact with her, and don't take your anger out on the guy. It's your exes fault, she obviously wanted him to bang her.
I've been cheated on, and the most common reaction is to want to beat the living hell out of the guy.

The reality is, no guy makes a move without being led by the girl. She's the one that allow things to escalate to the bedroom. This is 2005 baby, no man is going to force himself on a woman in that sense.

Your anger should be directed at the girl. She's gone.
 
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