“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How do I handle this?

notorio

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Originally posted by Melvin
notorio: Relax, I'm not bashing you at all. Sometimes the truth isn't easy to absorb.

As a DJ you seem to be doing fine, much better than I am at the moment, trust me. You seem to have no problems getting laid so for that I commend you. Keep doing what you're doing but don't sweat the minimal stuff like wondering what to do about this guy calling you. Either don't pick up the phone or if you pick it up let the guy know it doesn't matter and be on your way. Simple.

Good luck.
Yea, I don't wanna start a flame war or anything. Honestly though, I'm done with my 'truth absorbing'. Yea, I probably won't answer his call and just keep truckin. I'm actually about to head out soon to meet up with this new girl :)

G'luck to yah.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ikkenai

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Re: Re: How do I handle this?

Originally posted by darth yoda
Cut off all contact with her, and don't take your anger out on the guy. It's your exes fault, she obviously wanted him to bang her.
I've been cheated on, and the most common reaction is to want to beat the living hell out of the guy.

The reality is, no guy makes a move without being led by the girl. She's the one that allow things to escalate to the bedroom. This is 2005 baby, no man is going to force himself on a woman in that sense.

Your anger should be directed at the girl. She's gone.
 
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