"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do I handle this situation with this girl i really like?

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So its this girl that i really like and care for she got real upset and disgusted with me because I became jealous and mad at my so called friend when he was talking to her in a "more than friends" type of way.
I got mad over a similar situation earlier this year but i guess she forgave me she said I lied about being mad both times witch i did but she lied also saying she had no feelings toward my so called friends. But the thing is I never really told her i liked her i just SHOWED her I like her and care for her. I dont understand why she would lie if she didn't care for me back my friend showed me texts. I just regret letting my jealously get to my head. IM not in the least bit desperate there plenty of other girls i could get with. But its just something about her that's different than any other girl iv'e ever met IVE NEVER DID THE THINGS i DO FOR HER than any other girl ive been with SHE' s special. SO I NEED I JUST NEED SOME ADVICE ON HOW I SHOULD APPROACH THIS SITUATION HELP Will be HIGHY APPRECIATED.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NorwegianDJ

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I'd vote for no contact and strictly other girls for a couple of weeks. Someone show this good fellow a oneitis post.
 
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Butterfly555 said:
IM not in the least bit desperate there plenty of other girls i could get with.


But its just something about her that's different than any other girl iv'e ever met IVE NEVER DID THE THINGS i DO FOR HER than any other girl ive been with SHE' s special.
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^lol

For your own sake, move on.
 
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