"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do I handle this situation with this girl i really like?

Butterfly555

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So its this girl that i really like and care for she got real upset and disgusted with me because I became jealous and mad at my so called friend when he was talking to her in a "more than friends" type of way.
I got mad over a similar situation earlier this year but i guess she forgave me she said I lied about being mad both times witch i did but she lied also saying she had no feelings toward my so called friends. But the thing is I never really told her i liked her i just SHOWED her I like her and care for her. I dont understand why she would lie if she didn't care for me back my friend showed me texts. I just regret letting my jealously get to my head. IM not in the least bit desperate there plenty of other girls i could get with. But its just something about her that's different than any other girl iv'e ever met IVE NEVER DID THE THINGS i DO FOR HER than any other girl ive been with SHE' s special. SO I NEED I JUST NEED SOME ADVICE ON HOW I SHOULD APPROACH THIS SITUATION HELP Will be HIGHY APPRECIATED.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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NorwegianDJ

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I'd vote for no contact and strictly other girls for a couple of weeks. Someone show this good fellow a oneitis post.
 

Rhino

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Butterfly555 said:
IM not in the least bit desperate there plenty of other girls i could get with.


But its just something about her that's different than any other girl iv'e ever met IVE NEVER DID THE THINGS i DO FOR HER than any other girl ive been with SHE' s special.
^lol

For your own sake, move on.
 
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