"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do I handle this: old friend hookup

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I've known this girl for a while (4 years) but, we talked every now and then she relocated and I have new friends that she hasn't met yet. she is visiting for a few weeks and then moving here a few weeks after. she has a high interest level there's strong attraction. given we haven't seen each other in a long time though in my mind i should seduce and flirt with her. she is definitely girlfriend material and i don't want to **** it up. i won't bring up relationship stuff with her of course. just have fun and be happy not expecting anything from it. one of my friend's who i consider an alpha male, gets girls like it's nothing. that is the question i am having.

in essence, how should i go about this situation?

do you all bring a girl (non-girlfriend/relationship/wife) out to meet the guys you hang out with?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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not if you don't want one of your friends to bone her.
 
zekko

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Lol, that's what I was thinking. Keep her away from your alpha male buddy.
 
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