"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do I handle this: old friend hookup

Juan Don

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I've known this girl for a while (4 years) but, we talked every now and then she relocated and I have new friends that she hasn't met yet. she is visiting for a few weeks and then moving here a few weeks after. she has a high interest level there's strong attraction. given we haven't seen each other in a long time though in my mind i should seduce and flirt with her. she is definitely girlfriend material and i don't want to **** it up. i won't bring up relationship stuff with her of course. just have fun and be happy not expecting anything from it. one of my friend's who i consider an alpha male, gets girls like it's nothing. that is the question i am having.

in essence, how should i go about this situation?

do you all bring a girl (non-girlfriend/relationship/wife) out to meet the guys you hang out with?
 

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SSBS

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not if you don't want one of your friends to bone her.
 

zekko

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Lol, that's what I was thinking. Keep her away from your alpha male buddy.
 
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