"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

How do I handle this: old friend hookup

J

Juan Don

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 6, 2011
Messages
140
Reaction score
2
I've known this girl for a while (4 years) but, we talked every now and then she relocated and I have new friends that she hasn't met yet. she is visiting for a few weeks and then moving here a few weeks after. she has a high interest level there's strong attraction. given we haven't seen each other in a long time though in my mind i should seduce and flirt with her. she is definitely girlfriend material and i don't want to **** it up. i won't bring up relationship stuff with her of course. just have fun and be happy not expecting anything from it. one of my friend's who i consider an alpha male, gets girls like it's nothing. that is the question i am having.

in essence, how should i go about this situation?

do you all bring a girl (non-girlfriend/relationship/wife) out to meet the guys you hang out with?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

S

SSBS

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 16, 2012
Messages
74
Reaction score
6
not if you don't want one of your friends to bone her.
 
zekko

zekko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2009
Messages
16,800
Reaction score
10,036
Lol, that's what I was thinking. Keep her away from your alpha male buddy.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top