"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How do I handle her group?

zack77766

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I think one day Im going to end up in a situation where one day Ill be skateboarding and some girl and her friends are watching. How's this: (I purposely fall so my board rolls towrad their direction. Me: So hows my skateboarding skills? Them: (Laughing). Me: So anyone want to learn how to skateboard Im pretty good. Them: (Not sure what they will say) Me: Ok how about you all write down your number, except you (my target).

Now what can I do from here? any flaws to this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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zack77766 said:
Now what can I do from here? any flaws to this?
Stop trying to write plays.. ask your skater friends how they score the chicks.
 

zack77766

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
Stop trying to write plays.. ask your skater friends how they score the chicks.
they're all single. btw i dont want to get ****blocked or worse have my reputation ruined
 

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Your overthinking everything. Just skate around having fun, if you spot some girls stop for a sec, pick up your deck and walk over to them. Talk to them, as them what they thought. Ask them to help you by pointing out anything you might be doing wrong. Ask them if any of them have ever skated before, this might lead on to siblings/friends of theirs who might skate which gives you another topic to talk about. Just keep the conversation flowing and go with it.

Like Alamar said, don't write plays. The most impressive performances are often improvised. Think about when your skating, do you plan all your tricks the night before? No. You go out there, and you do what feels right. And you have the most fun that way. Having fun is important in chatting to girls, because if your having fun then chances are so are they.
 
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