Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How do I handle her group?

zack77766

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I think one day Im going to end up in a situation where one day Ill be skateboarding and some girl and her friends are watching. How's this: (I purposely fall so my board rolls towrad their direction. Me: So hows my skateboarding skills? Them: (Laughing). Me: So anyone want to learn how to skateboard Im pretty good. Them: (Not sure what they will say) Me: Ok how about you all write down your number, except you (my target).

Now what can I do from here? any flaws to this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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zack77766 said:
Now what can I do from here? any flaws to this?
Stop trying to write plays.. ask your skater friends how they score the chicks.
 

zack77766

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
Stop trying to write plays.. ask your skater friends how they score the chicks.
they're all single. btw i dont want to get ****blocked or worse have my reputation ruined
 

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Your overthinking everything. Just skate around having fun, if you spot some girls stop for a sec, pick up your deck and walk over to them. Talk to them, as them what they thought. Ask them to help you by pointing out anything you might be doing wrong. Ask them if any of them have ever skated before, this might lead on to siblings/friends of theirs who might skate which gives you another topic to talk about. Just keep the conversation flowing and go with it.

Like Alamar said, don't write plays. The most impressive performances are often improvised. Think about when your skating, do you plan all your tricks the night before? No. You go out there, and you do what feels right. And you have the most fun that way. Having fun is important in chatting to girls, because if your having fun then chances are so are they.
 
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