lol, the advice here is getting stupider and stupider.
the question is how to become unattached from girls.
the solution to your problems is to stop getting attached to people.
attachments are disrespectful in general.
creepiness, stalking, obsessesing, controlling, addiction, jealously, lost and lonliness, weird and fvcked up behavior that serves no purpose too you then to fvck things up.
quit getting attached to people and especially girls that are attractive.
if you're meeting and falling for girls that say they don't want to get hurt again because of what their ex did theyre basicley saying blatantly that they have emotional issues and can't ever be trusted to be taken seriously, it's her fault for being an idiot and getting involved with a guy that hurt her. completely her fault, nor yours. and it's 100%forsure that in the future shell just keep finding guys that will hurt her and WILL 100% discard guys that will actually be nice to her and who make good boyfriends, her eyes will glaze ober, and WILL only pine and btch about the degenerate guys that are mean to her. think about that.
rather find girls that don't have that issue. find girls that love and appreciate their friends and who don't hold a victim complex whenever someone was mean to them.
find girls who are happy and who don't resonate and seek pain. their out there, rare but they are.
I've been seeing a chick for a few months that's probably the chillest gal I've ever met, finaly. shes cute, talks good about her past relationships, doesn't complain or btch about random non sense, doest tell "poor me" or "fvck him" stories.. she doesn't drink or do drugs ($$)
if I talk to or bang other girls she doesn't care, aka she doesn't try and burn my house down fvck up my car and try to get me killed and tell everyone how much i hurt her and how she's so victimized wah wah wah..
she simply doesn't do those things and she can actually be a nice person and doesn't pull this weird sappy emotional bullchit every 2 days.
so tldr, find better girls, just because she's attractive doesn't mean she's smart.
if you're finding yourself crying and feeling hopeless and lost cutting things off and getting over here for months after then you have the same problem she has and need to learn and better yourself. because the mentality you have right now is robbing your life of happiness and the real happy and cool people won't want anything to do with you.
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