This past weekend I met this BANGIN Hot Chick, Definitely a 10. We both took pictures (on her camera) at the club. We got each others myspace and stuff, I told her to send the pic to me when she gets a chance. Well, it's been like 4 days now and she hasn't sent me the pic or a nything. I want to send her a message asking her if she can send me the pic from that night, but I don't want to come across as needy/desperate. Really, the only reason I want the pic is to show my buddies and stuff cause she is a model seriously a fkn TEN. Any ideas?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How do I get the pic from her w/o coming across as needy?
- Thread starter baurman
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
gray_fox_9
Don Juan
Just send her a message saying...."I believe you owe me a picture missy 
"
Just be playful and don't act desperate. You think too much...lol....
"Just be playful and don't act desperate. You think too much...lol....
grays got the idea, and focus on nailing the chick not showing your friends her picture.gray_fox_9 said:Just send her a message saying...."I believe you owe me a picture missy
Just be playful and don't act desperate. You think too much...lol....
whop ive got you to stop there
dont put her on a podest.
You see her as the prize when apparently u have to be the prize
Btw that line is good but i would add a lil bit more ****y
something along the lines of: Hey you know that picture you begged me for taking one? Yeah that one on your wall? You should send me that one because i need it for some model letter of application.
Not exactly that line but something like that. Just make sure you are the more attractive one
dont put her on a podest.
You see her as the prize when apparently u have to be the prize
Btw that line is good but i would add a lil bit more ****y
something along the lines of: Hey you know that picture you begged me for taking one? Yeah that one on your wall? You should send me that one because i need it for some model letter of application.
Not exactly that line but something like that. Just make sure you are the more attractive one
MacAvoy
Banned
baurman said:
^^^^^^ = NEEDY
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
MacAvoy
Banned
Coming across as creepy isn't the issue. I was trying to point out that by wanting the pic for the sole reason to show his buddies, is needy and he has other more important issues.sosilky said:
However like evzone said, at least he's out there and getting in the game. Now he should simply get her number and go out with her instead of trying to brag to his friends about a hot chick he "MET". Personally I'd much rather bang a hot chick than brag about meeting a hot chick that I've never fvcked.