"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How do I get the pic from her w/o coming across as needy?

baurman

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This past weekend I met this BANGIN Hot Chick, Definitely a 10. We both took pictures (on her camera) at the club. We got each others myspace and stuff, I told her to send the pic to me when she gets a chance. Well, it's been like 4 days now and she hasn't sent me the pic or a nything. I want to send her a message asking her if she can send me the pic from that night, but I don't want to come across as needy/desperate. Really, the only reason I want the pic is to show my buddies and stuff cause she is a model seriously a fkn TEN. Any ideas?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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gray_fox_9

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Just send her a message saying...."I believe you owe me a picture missy :p"

Just be playful and don't act desperate. You think too much...lol....
 

sosilky

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gray_fox_9 said:
Just send her a message saying...."I believe you owe me a picture missy :p"

Just be playful and don't act desperate. You think too much...lol....
grays got the idea, and focus on nailing the chick not showing your friends her picture.
 

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whop ive got you to stop there
dont put her on a podest.
You see her as the prize when apparently u have to be the prize

Btw that line is good but i would add a lil bit more ****y
something along the lines of: Hey you know that picture you begged me for taking one? Yeah that one on your wall? You should send me that one because i need it for some model letter of application.

Not exactly that line but something like that. Just make sure you are the more attractive one ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Evzone

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Did you get her phone number? If so, call her to hang out some time. If not, you probably should let this one go and remember to get the number next time. Good effort though; a lot of people don't even try.
 

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sosilky said:
yeah i'd listen to macavoy it might come off as creepy
Coming across as creepy isn't the issue. I was trying to point out that by wanting the pic for the sole reason to show his buddies, is needy and he has other more important issues.

However like evzone said, at least he's out there and getting in the game. Now he should simply get her number and go out with her instead of trying to brag to his friends about a hot chick he "MET". Personally I'd much rather bang a hot chick than brag about meeting a hot chick that I've never fvcked.
 
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