"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do I get the pic from her w/o coming across as needy?

baurman

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This past weekend I met this BANGIN Hot Chick, Definitely a 10. We both took pictures (on her camera) at the club. We got each others myspace and stuff, I told her to send the pic to me when she gets a chance. Well, it's been like 4 days now and she hasn't sent me the pic or a nything. I want to send her a message asking her if she can send me the pic from that night, but I don't want to come across as needy/desperate. Really, the only reason I want the pic is to show my buddies and stuff cause she is a model seriously a fkn TEN. Any ideas?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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gray_fox_9

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Just send her a message saying...."I believe you owe me a picture missy :p"

Just be playful and don't act desperate. You think too much...lol....
 

sosilky

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gray_fox_9 said:
Just send her a message saying...."I believe you owe me a picture missy :p"

Just be playful and don't act desperate. You think too much...lol....
grays got the idea, and focus on nailing the chick not showing your friends her picture.
 

Enryu

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whop ive got you to stop there
dont put her on a podest.
You see her as the prize when apparently u have to be the prize

Btw that line is good but i would add a lil bit more ****y
something along the lines of: Hey you know that picture you begged me for taking one? Yeah that one on your wall? You should send me that one because i need it for some model letter of application.

Not exactly that line but something like that. Just make sure you are the more attractive one ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Evzone

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Did you get her phone number? If so, call her to hang out some time. If not, you probably should let this one go and remember to get the number next time. Good effort though; a lot of people don't even try.
 

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sosilky said:
yeah i'd listen to macavoy it might come off as creepy
Coming across as creepy isn't the issue. I was trying to point out that by wanting the pic for the sole reason to show his buddies, is needy and he has other more important issues.

However like evzone said, at least he's out there and getting in the game. Now he should simply get her number and go out with her instead of trying to brag to his friends about a hot chick he "MET". Personally I'd much rather bang a hot chick than brag about meeting a hot chick that I've never fvcked.
 
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