"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do I get-rid of this chick?

maranathaman

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I met the lady on match.com and at first she seemed normal enough, but we haven't even had a date yet, haven't met in-person yet. But she calls me and emails me everyday!
When she calls, she just talks and talks, and the only way i can ever get a word in, is if I interupt her. She just never shuts-up!
I'm starting to think she's a little wacko! I think I should forget about meeting her and somehow eject her from my life, but I don't want to be mean to her, cause she seems kindof fragile.
Normally I might just totally be an AFC on her to drive her away, but she seems like her "self esteem" is so low that she would wanna marry-me or something! If I just dump-her, she might hurt herself! Any suggestions?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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cffrmw

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change your email, phone number, move to a different country and change your name. never use internet dating services again. using them is a lot like the special olympics, even if you score, you're still retarded... or you could tell her you're married. or you could have a friend call her and tell her you were killed in a car accident. or tell her you found someone else. cmon dude theres a million options here, just choose one. even if she knows its bs she'll get the hint.
 

Jvesti

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stop responding to her emails

don't return her calls

not very difficult
 

WaterTiger

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The girl is DESPERATE! You're the first good thing she's seen in years and she WANTS you. If you meet up with her, don't be surprised if she is holding an issue of "Modern Bride" magazine.

It will only get worse if you meet her. Cut contact now unless you like "Velcro" girlfriends.
 
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